Why You Don’t Like These 10 Things
Introverts are not weird beings. They are just different…!!! To be fair, Visiting some amazing places Making some nice friends Hearing some personal stories Doing some fun things on their list That girl we saw looking at us? We probably didn’t go to talk to her. What if she was the one? We could have had some great adventures. A few short moments of joy? That trip we missed? We will probably never go to that place again. We will probably try, but something will stop us, maybe at the last minute. What about that party last night, that everyone posted on Facebook and Instagram? We are the only ones not there. But then, Maybe she was not good for us. Or worse, she was, but we would have hurt each other. Avoided a painful break-up, right? You don’t like some things that they like.
You are different from many people.You have your reasons for that. Here are 10 things that you don’t like and why:
Casual Relationships
You want a serious relationship. You want to be loyal and faithful to one person. You don’t like casual relationships because they are not deep or meaningful.
It is hard to be in a relationship. Nobody understands your love. Once you break off from your love, you stop understanding the language of love, you can’t dare to love others and you don’t accept the love of others.
If you fail in a relationship, it is like carrying a ton of weight forever. Still, nobody knows about it. It’s like PMS, it comes cyclically very often and every time it shatters your glass-like heart into tiny particles of sand. It seems impossible to join those tiny particles, but with a lot of effort you join it and again it breaks. The worst part is, that you never get used to it, and you always live in the hope of salvation.
Large Groups of Unworthy Friends
You want real friends. You want friends who understand you and are kind to you. You don’t like large groups of unworthy friends because they are not genuine.
Noise and Chaos of Parties and Clubs
You like peace. You like being alone and happy in your room. You don’t like the noise and chaos of parties and clubs because they are not calm or relaxing.
Crazy, Useless, Random Selfies
You like living in the moment. You like enjoying every second of your life. You don’t like crazy, useless, random selfies because they are not living or treasuring memories.
Trying Out New Places Every Time
You like comfort and familiarity. You like listening to music and eating pizza on your soft couch. You don’t like trying out new places every time because they are not comfortable or familiar.
Mind Boggling Fun Activities like Karaoke, Dancing, etc.
You like your talent and style. You like rocking that peppy song best in your bathroom. You don’t like mind-boggling fun activities like karaoke, dancing, etc. because they are not your talent or style.
Celebrating Birthdays as a Grand Affair
You like simplicity and modesty. You like being yourself and knowing that you are special. You don’t like celebrating birthdays as a grand affair because they are not simple or modest.
Unusual Fun Dates
You see people as an investment. And want to spend time with someone worth it. You don’t like unusual fun dates because they are not an investment or enjoyable. You get nervous when you have to go on a date.
Large Family Social Gatherings and Chit Chat Sessions
You prefer books over people. You like reading and learning from non-living objects. You don’t like large family social gatherings and chit-chat sessions because they are not books or learning. You don’t like talking to people.
Excessive Expression of Loud Emotions
You believe in the mystery of hidden thoughts. You like reading eyes and seeing hearts. You don’t like excessive expression of loud emotions because they are not mysterious or hidden. You observe the deepest.
You know many things not everything, but you want to do it perfectly because you’re inherently obsessed about perfectionism. You do it late, but you’re perfect. As time passes, you reach the pinnacle of your reclusiveness and start loving your personality, though you’re not being observed, you don’t care about it. You start enjoying your enigmatic personality. The very very few friends you have call you sarcastic and sometimes it bothers you, but it’s okay.
Speak Less
You speak less, and you remember much. Your mind retains every minor detail. Indeed, it’s a blessing and only a few people are capable of this.
One Sider Lover
You are the most unfortunate one-sided lover. Not even your best friend knows you are in love.
Yeah, there is nothing we can do about this, the only person you can trust is your soulmate and your one side of love leaves you apart from your soulmate. Probably this is the worst thing that can happen to you. You have to bear this!
Fear Of Socialization
You fear when you are recognized by others. You want to be successful and get fame but anonymously.
Unfortunately, you want to be successful anonymously, because you’re afraid that others may underestimate or make fun of you. So you have to lead this journey alone. Sometimes it’s hard to travel alone, but you don’t have a choice because you chose that path.
Boiling Frog Syndrome
You sense anything wrong very fast, but you just talk to your mind and regret why you didn’t open up before the shit happened.
It’s true, it’s called boiling frog syndrome. But you should keep on trying to reform yourself in this matter. Because you’re susceptible to fatal blows, these blows will beset you for a lifetime.
You do everything clandestinely. You don’t want anybody to know what you think or what you do.
Like Being Alone
You are perfect when you are alone. Your routine is disturbed if someone is with you.
You’re perfect when you’re alone or when you’re with the people you love. Yes, you’re disturbed badly when someone else is with you. Your mind constantly tells you that this alien is incompatible with you and you make it more embarrassing for the others with your asocial nature.
Creative Towards Art
You have a very creative mind. You will excel in things that seek solitude like art/music/reading/writing.
Nature Lover
You understand the feelings of animals and old people well. Because they don’t speak. Just like you. You are likely a pet lover.
Calm In All Emotions
You have the same staid face for multiple emotions because you cry inside, laugh inside, love inside, and hate inside. Your few friends often complain about this. But you’re a very expressive person, it’s just that you don’t open up with everyone.
Busy Routine
You are always busy on the web finding solutions to your problems because you don’t ask people around you. You fear it makes them know about yourself.
Self Lover
Self-cognition, reading books, cooking, and traveling are better solutions than web browsing. You tend to love traveling more than anything else in this world because no one recognizes you, no one judges you and you can be yourself all the time. You can be a great solo traveler