Ain’t No Love Like Yours: 5 Flirty Techniques To Seduce Your Husband
Sexuality is a core part of what unites a married couple into profound oneness. While good sex shouldn’t be the sole foundation of a marriage, blessing your husband sexually brings confidence and happiness for both partners when done thoughtfully.
As the old adage goes, “happy wife, happy life.” But the reverse is equally true – when your husband feels satisfied and desired within your intimate life, it elevates his mood, emotional availability and energizes him to pour into non-sexual aspects of your marriage as well.
Here are 5 meaningful ways to awaken new passion while also blessing your husband sexually:
1. Initiate Intimacy More Often
Rather than exclusively leaving it to your husband to initiate sex, be bold and start intimacies yourself to signal your strong desire for him. This could look like:
- Sending a flirty text that you want to ravage him when he gets home from work
- Planning romantic “intimacy nights” complete with lingerie or his favorite meal
- Surprising him in the shower or waking him with amorous touch
Driving the start of periodic sexual encounters makes your husband feel wildly attractive and chosen by you. Your boldness breaks up predictability while amplifying anticipation.
2. Focus On Foreplay
The path to sexual fulfillment starts outside the bedroom with intentional foreplay using thoughtful touch, flirtatious words sprinkled throughout your day together and emotionally connecting first before getting physical.
Prioritizing daily affections and gradually stoking desire through playful banter creates marital cohesion. It also telegraphs availability before you’re in a sexual context, taking off pressure.
3. Communicate Your Attraction
Affirm what specifically you find sexy or irresistible about your spouse. This could sound like:
- “When you make breakfast for the kids on weekends, it makes me want to get you alone immediately!”
- Sending a text that you can’t stop thinking about a certain body part
- Whispering suggestive compliments in his ear randomly
Verbally reinforcing the precise qualities and behaviors that increase your attraction for your husband infuses confidence and encouragement to continue them. Let your words bless what he’s already doing right!
4. Explore New Positions
While sexual repetition has comfort, mixing it up physically spices things ups through novelty and adventure together. Push boundaries while building spiritual and emotional intimacy marrying you into one flesh.
Fun ideas to try:
- Experiment with different furniture as makeshift supports beyond the bedroom
- Look up tantric sex guides or Kamasutra for inspirational new positions to explore
Laughing through occasional awkwardness trying new things lightens the moment while creating fun memories.
5. Make Sex Playful
Sex doesn’t have to be intensely serious to be satisfying. Incorporating playfulness through intimacy games, challenges requiring earning sensual rewards or even just letting go in laughter relieves performance pressure.
Get creative with sexual blessings like:
- Taking a sex quiz together to uncover new ideas
- Role playing exciting scenarios
- Initating a playful pillow fight in the bedroom
Playfulness balances intensity with laughter and curiosity. When sex gets too goal-oriented, focusing on fun reunites sex with the context of enjoyment within your marriage.
Benefits of Blessing Your Husband Sexually
Above all, purposeful blessing of your husband in your times of physical intimacy cements confidence while drawing out his protective leadership instincts to emotionally and spiritually shepherd your heart beyond the bedroom too.
Additional blessings include:
- Deepened vulnerable connection and marital happiness
- Reduced temptation or wandering eyes when fulfilled
- Fun bonding memories created to look back on
- Brain chemicals released to destress and relax together
Prioritizing consistent sexual blessing empowers your husband to be energized and poured into all areas of your relationship.
Frequently Asked Questions
How can I satisfy my husband sexually?
Focus on whole-life intimacy, creative foreplay, confident enthusiasm and fun instead of goal-driven intensity. Ask what specifically fulfills him and listen without judgement.
Why is sexual intimacy important in marriage?
It provides a vulnerable window into each other’s souls to connect, builds trust through reciprocated care for needs, and maintains attraction between spouses.
What are some creative things to try in bed?
Role playing exciting scenarios, intimacy games/quizzes to uncover new ideas, taking sex outside the bedroom to de-habituate routines or reading sexy stories aloud can all enrich intimacy.
The blessings of investing in sexual connection reverberate through your entire relationship when done thoughtfully. May these ideas inspire new confidence, playfulness and care between you and your husband.